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  • Why A Blog?

    Why A Blog?

    Just because I don’t air my issues, doesn’t mean I don’t have any. I bleed like you.

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  • Internal Conflict

    Internal Conflict

    I want to believe my mother and father will live forever, but of course that would be living in a dream. The love they’ve provided me, requires me to raise my guard and protect the better parts of me. How can I let them leave knowing I’m being devalued? Wait, I mean.. devaluing myself, by…

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  • Breaking Up With Toxicity

    Breaking Up With Toxicity

    It’s crazy how many red flags 🚩 we ignore. It’s not because we are dumb, it’s really because we choose to ignore them… OK.. so maybe we are dumb, but most importantly we’re human. It’s like we WANT to see the good in people, even when they show us exactly who they are! This could…

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  • Babyyyy boy! What are we doing?!

    Like girl y’all grown AF, if shorty don’t respond 🗣Sis, Block Him! 💀 But forreal.. just let that situation go.

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  • Dear Diary:: Oh Deshaun..

    Oh Deshaun…

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  • Dear Diary: I met you at the wrong time…..

    I don’t know that you’ll ever read this…But I want to thank you for always being a rock in my life, even though you have not been in my life in a very long time. You’ve given me a foundation and set a standard for my life

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  • growth

    growth

    Growth is saying to yourself “Girl put that shit back, you don’t need to spend money.” Thisssss one.. I’m still working on haha

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  • Heal·ing

    Heal·ing

    I’ve found myself just having random breakdowns and even though I wanted to stop myself from crying, I knew I just had to let it out. I’ve cried in the car, in the bed, in the shower, mainly anywhere I had time to think which is why I try so hard to stay busy. But…

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  • trau·ma

    trau·ma

    When we first meet someone we are instantly attracted to something physical and if not physical, it’s their personality. We tend to boast about their looks, their career, their body, their smile, and their lifestyle. Many of us take all of these things and imagine a life with them. Time goes on, we meet their…

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  • Just one of those days..

    Just one of those days..

    Some days I wake up and I’m just not feeling it. It’s to the point that just laying in bed and doing nothing feels perfect. Sometimes it’s so bad that I don’t want contact with anyone. My mom always told me to stop being so available, and that’s a lesson I have yet to learn.…

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  • An Open Letter to beau..

    An Open Letter to beau..

    Thank You.. I appreciate you.. Although we haven’t been on this journey long, you’ve proven to be a noble companion. Sometimes I even consider you a champion. You’ve taken on a project that many have quit. Day 1, I told you the story of a heart impossible to fix. You ensured me you were ready…

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